почему иногда я хочу умереть, vol.1

[jo(nna)]

no straight or gay person in their right mind would ever date a bisexual person. It's simply statistics and logic. If a bi person is attracted to both sexes sexually, then it is Impossible to fully satisfy them in a monogamous relationship. Whether they like it or not they will still be sexually attracted to people of the sex they aren't dating(and genitalia which their partner don't have), so it's unfair to date them, period. No one I know dates bi's willingly. — 5 ridiculous reasons people won't date bisexuals (comments)

Q:I have gotten many comments from friends and acquaintances saying that my refusal to date bi men is a sign of bigotry, and that I am subjecting them to the same unjustified prejudice that the rest of society heaps on gay people (especially gay men). <...> It's just not attractive. Does that mean that I hate bisexual men? Well, no. I just don't want to have anything to do with them, especially in a romantic sense. Have I slept with bisexual guys? Of course, but I never took it seriously and it was a matter of "let's get down to it and then, I'm out of the door". I have never spoken badly of bisexual men, but I have also never, ever heard anything positive about them. <...> So, is not wanting to date bi men a sign of intolerance and bigotry in gay men? I don't think so. Do you?
R1: You're not a bigot OP; you're smart.
R3: I stay away from marinated meat. Has that fish smell you just can't wash off.

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R8: Totally agree with [R1]. I've done it too and it was a period of lies and insanity and more lies. My experience of bisexuals is that they are inherently dishonest. I would never date a bisexual. If someone uses that word bisexual then that's the end of it.
R26: I think OP you're doing yourself a great favour by not engaging with them, as long as not all of them are completely dishonest and playing games, or would treat you like their toy during their visit in "gayville" The statement itself is quite interesting "Dating bisexuals" - I don't think with them there is a lot of dating involved anyway, most of them are dl and paranoid about what their precious "straight peers" would think Another trait about them I find amusing While they complain about their exclusion in gay community on forums and social medias in real life they don't really wanna be associated, seen as gays I've seen this numerous times They look up to straights like those "poor cousins" even though to straights they're just as faggots as any of us Yet the number of heartaches and headaches they cause around - why would you need any of that It's not bigotry - it's a common sense Stick to full timers man — I don't want to date bi guys: am I a bigot?

Well in my personal experience, bi-sexual women are much more likely to have mental health issues like depression or anxiety and tend to be quite promiscuous. obviously not every bi-woman is like that, however, the ones I've known (yes, known) were like. So, you can try to call it a phobia or whatever, but in reality it's just simple logic. — why refusing to date bisexuals is either an insecurity issue or bi-phobic (comments)

ну будем честными: не шибко приятно если твоя женщина бросит тебя ради какого-то хуя
поэтому я тоже не желаю встречаться с би
не с моей ревностью выносить все это — сообщение от подруги-лесбиянки, с которой я пыталась об этом поговорить ))

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Comments

[Learjning]

Вообще не шибко приятно, если твоя женщина тебя бросит. Какая разница ради чего?

P.S.: Английский текст не читала, только пробежалась.

[jo(nna)]

Learjning, вот я о том же. подруга объясняет это тем, что "я и так ревную, а на два фронта совсем себя изведу". хотя вообще, конечно, чаще слышишь "аааААаА но ведь бисексуалам постоянно нужны тройнички и вообще они не могут быть моногамными ведь им потенциально нравятся два пола ЗНАЧИТ ИМ ПОСТОЯННО НУЖНЫ КОНТАКТЫ С ЛЮДЬМИ ОБОИХ ПОЛОВ" и вот это всё

[Learjning]

jo(nna), стереотипы, заблуждения и еще немного неуверенности в себе - опасный коктейль.

[jo(nna)]

Learjning, ох, да .___.

[Не по-маяковски]

понимаю, разделяю и сочувствую!
могу покидать всяких коммьюнити, если это важно, могу просто в личке послушать

[Не по-маяковски]

понимаю, разделяю и сочувствую!
могу покидать всяких коммьюнити, если это важно, могу просто в личке послушать

[jo(nna)]

Не по-маяковски, за ссылочки буду очень благодарна